Special Feature: The Return of the Gentleman
Meet Author James D. Martin, II
Chivalry is not dead. In fact, Author James D. Martin, II is on a personal mission to make sure it never dies. James is so passionate about is mission, that he has penned his first book entitled "The Charisma Principles, 80 Essential Messages for Men" to help men elevate thier personal style and ettiquitte skills.
A devoted husband and father, Love. Work. Repeat. first met James when he and his beautiful wife Devona were our featured Real Stories couple. We are honored to feature James again, this time in the capacity of author, as he shares why he wrote his book, and talks about who influenced him in becoming the man he is today.
"A gentleman is one who puts more into the world than he takes out." -George Bernard Shaw
A devoted husband and father, Love. Work. Repeat. first met James when he and his beautiful wife Devona were our featured Real Stories couple. We are honored to feature James again, this time in the capacity of author, as he shares why he wrote his book, and talks about who influenced him in becoming the man he is today.
"A gentleman is one who puts more into the world than he takes out." -George Bernard Shaw
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What is your new book "The Charisma Principles, 80 Essential Messages for Men" about? My book provides principles for men of all ages on image, etiquette and relationships. It’s a handbook to assist in common areas of life in which men need to make sound decisions in order to portray a positive image. What inspired you to write a book for men? I was inspired to write the book because of my ideal upbringing and the principles that I was taught by my parents, in particular my father on what it meant to be a man. My inspiration also stemmed out of frustration due to some of the negative things that I have seen and heard from young men in our communities. In addition, I was inspired to write the book, because it provides me with an additional tool to use to help motivate and mentor others. "Being a gentleman never goes out of style." |
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What are your hopes for the readers of your book?
My hopes for the readers of my book are to assist men in realizing that consistently portraying a positive image and displaying proper etiquette can assist them in opening doors in many areas of life such as their relationships, careers and everyday interactions. A major objective is to provide them with a guide of standards. I also encourage women and young ladies to read the book, so that they will know and understand what to expect from men who want to position themselves as leaders and gentlemen. As your book helps men with etiquette and style, please share with our readers who your favorite style icons are. My style icons are music executive and producer, Antonio “L. A.” Reid and Actor Billy D. Williams. |
What are your top 3 tips for men who are looking to refine their image?
Number 1: When it comes to dressing, don’t overdo it. It’s ok to have a few trendy pieces in your closet, but mainly, keep it classic when it comes to your attire.
Number 2: Always incorporate a nice pocket square, (which I affectionately refer to as “Pocket Chocolate”) when wearing a suit, sport coat or blazer. This intricate detail can take your ensemble from cool to captivating in a manner of seconds!
Number 3: Keep a smile on your face and have positive interactions with everyone you meet. People remember how you treat them.
Number 1: When it comes to dressing, don’t overdo it. It’s ok to have a few trendy pieces in your closet, but mainly, keep it classic when it comes to your attire.
Number 2: Always incorporate a nice pocket square, (which I affectionately refer to as “Pocket Chocolate”) when wearing a suit, sport coat or blazer. This intricate detail can take your ensemble from cool to captivating in a manner of seconds!
Number 3: Keep a smile on your face and have positive interactions with everyone you meet. People remember how you treat them.
What books are you currently reading?
I am currently reading Kingdom Man by Tony Evans and The Measure of a Man by Gene Getz. These books serve as great reference material.
What's next on the horizon for you?
God has been gracious in providing me with new opportunities. I’m currently working on a project to serve as an image and life skills consultant for college athletic programs in order to assist coaches in developing male student athletes of character and charisma. I also am working on a video series that will include interviews/discussions with gentlemen regarding an array of topics. I will continue my tour, “The Rebirth of the Gentleman” which focuses on image, social and workplace etiquette and chivalry for college males. In addition, I’m working on 2 more books. I would love to do voiceovers, so if you know anyone in the industry…I’m ready!
I am currently reading Kingdom Man by Tony Evans and The Measure of a Man by Gene Getz. These books serve as great reference material.
What's next on the horizon for you?
God has been gracious in providing me with new opportunities. I’m currently working on a project to serve as an image and life skills consultant for college athletic programs in order to assist coaches in developing male student athletes of character and charisma. I also am working on a video series that will include interviews/discussions with gentlemen regarding an array of topics. I will continue my tour, “The Rebirth of the Gentleman” which focuses on image, social and workplace etiquette and chivalry for college males. In addition, I’m working on 2 more books. I would love to do voiceovers, so if you know anyone in the industry…I’m ready!
How can our readers purchase your book and/or contact you?
The book can be purchased on my website (www.jdorthenmartin.com), Amazon.com, createspace.com, Chronicles Bookstore on the campus of Wheeler Avenue Baptist Church and also directly from me. E-mail: james@jdorthenmartin.com
Be sure to follow James on social media!
Facebook: J Dorthen Martin
Twitter: @JDorthenMartin
Instagram: CHARISMAIMAGE1
Thank you James for setting the example for young men, and for being a mentor to so many. You will touch many lives through your gift! LWR supports James, and you should support him too! Be sure to purchase his book for all the men in your life. It will make a wonderful gift!
The book can be purchased on my website (www.jdorthenmartin.com), Amazon.com, createspace.com, Chronicles Bookstore on the campus of Wheeler Avenue Baptist Church and also directly from me. E-mail: james@jdorthenmartin.com
Be sure to follow James on social media!
Facebook: J Dorthen Martin
Twitter: @JDorthenMartin
Instagram: CHARISMAIMAGE1
Thank you James for setting the example for young men, and for being a mentor to so many. You will touch many lives through your gift! LWR supports James, and you should support him too! Be sure to purchase his book for all the men in your life. It will make a wonderful gift!
James Martin, II is an author, motivational speaker and personal image and life skills consultant. He specializes in the personal development of men by assisting them in understanding how the dynamics of image and etiquette can provide them with unparalleled charisma and influence. With years of experience as a professional speaker, etiquette coach, and training specialist, he has transformed the lives of many individuals leading them to various levels of success. James holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Economics from the University of Houston. He is the founder of J. Dorthen Martin, a personal consulting company based in Houston, TX. James has a passion for mentoring and is the etiquette instructor for the Boy’s Rites of Passage program at Wheeler Avenue Baptist Church. He recently authored his first book entitled, “The Charisma Principles: 80 Essential Messages for Men.” He has enjoyed 15 years of marriage with his wife Devona, and has two amazing children, Chase and Nia.
-- JC
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